Speak like Water

........Amendment of laws in the context of their requirement to enforce order in the pretext of time and ethics..........

Section 366 in The Indian Penal Code, 1860 -  Kidnapping, abducting or inducing woman to compel her marriage, etc.
Information Technology Act 2000 - offences relating to the use of or concerned with the abuse of computers or other electronic gadgets.
Homosexual intercourse was a criminal offence under Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code, 1860.

........Revival of laws amended in the context of their requirement to enforce order in the pretext of time and ethics..........

Section 366 in The Companies Act, 1956 -  Limit of compensation for loss of office.
I.T. Amendment Act 2008 - any offence or crime in which a computer is used in a time-tested frame is a cyber crime.
Homosexual intercourse  under Section 377, 2009  - legal prohibitions  to be in direct violation of fundamental rights provided by the Indian Constitution.
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Above stated are a few laws framed and revised. Revision of constitutional laws depends upon the period of occurrence and the intensity of act performed, along with the impact that the act and the verdict have.
The laws, like democracy are for, by and of the people. People make and people break. The prime concern today is "People". Rule for masses is "Law", rule for self is "Principle".

Principles are a cocktail of rules an individual makes/inculcates, follows, breaks/changes, with respect to time, people, need, circumstance and ability. When a person reacts indifferently to a circumstance in comparison to the way he had earlier, and if this change results in positive impact, we call it "maturity".

The thought process is based on the principles. In short, principles are the foundation and integrity of a being. A blunder that we humans commonly make is that we believe that like integrity, principles are also static, solid and molded. If the integrity of a person is to spread joy, then any change in any method of dealing with people and circumstance would lead only towards joy, though the way to seek would vary.

Why do we people find it difficult to change our methods of acquiring a simple happy life? Why do we walk on the laid principles and fear from change? Why don't we do a little wrong to spread more good? If we argue on the good and the bad, the right and the wrong, then the conclusion would be the good of one is the bad of the other. The right of one is wrong for the other. The categorization of correct and incorrect is but a mind-set. So, why not change the mind set for a particular period of time to acquire the good from the bad. Like, every question arrives with an answer, every problem has a solution, every dusk has a dawn, I say, every destiny has two paths. Having traveled on a path yet finding the destiny far, try the other. Initially, it would take a toll, it would take all you have to offer but in this process you learn to acquire greater heights in a different way. Taking a path less traveled is different, not wrong. Doing something undone is experimentation, not false expectation.

If I keep my child away from my wife to make her feel the same my parents feel when she tries to keep me away from them, I am not wrong. If I tell my boss that I am ill and I party around once in a while, I am not wrong. If I speak ill and false about a girl who duped my friend, to get him out of depression, I am not wrong. If I castrate a man for a rape or an attempt to it, I am not wrong. If I fake stomach ache to avoid school for a day, I am not wrong. If I raise my voice against the people absconding my rights, I am not wrong. If I act of being rebellious to change the rebellious, I am not wrong. If I speak tooth for a tooth, eye for an eye, I am not wrong.
 I am right and so is my method.  Fact is, some people demand us to act like them to show them how it feels when they do the same on us. If Gaddafi was not killed, the message of human rights and anti-terrorism would not have been clear. So, the mob who raged against Gaddafi were born murderers? No. They did what he demanded, what the circumstances demanded, what the life demanded. Being calm and accepting the ill treatment is a shame to one's existence. Fight back. Fight with peace. If peace can not cater peace, end in war, this end shall bring a new beginning. 

There is no law in nature that can remain unchanged. When "Mother Nature" changes herself from time to time, who are we to abscond changes??

Speak a language that water does. Water....it takes the color of everything added in it, it swallows the good and the bad, yet it keeps flowing, through all turns and corners, heights and depths, reaches its destination carrying along only itself..its integrity!

No human is inevitable..change with the change.

#This blog is written with sole intention of telling to my dear one that at times changing your principles for good, is supreme. Do not hesitate to change when the scene demands.

Dropping Drops!!!

When a drop of water traverses from an elevation to the ground, it makes no sound. When drops of water travel, they mark their path, like a bee. One kind gesture of serving the needy, or hatred towards incapability, is not enough to define a man. A man is a composure of all elements of nature. The virtue is born at the time of birth of a new life, 'integrity' builds with time - steady, in pace with encounters with people, on grounds of morals - being, giving and seeking.

Acquaintances are not an outcome of co-incidence but of a purpose. Meeting someone in a train, at work, at a public pissoir, can lead to a bond of seeking on the either front. I confronted two personalities at the same place, same time for different reasons that converged to one, one moment of lifetime.

Mr.Spinach, according to the people I have known, is a man of pride. Stern, difficult to deal with, yet fun-loving. With the impulsed knowledge I have about him, I was hesitant to let him join us in cooking and dining. But, one thing I have learnt for life is, that my integrity must be strong enough to sustain all forces from the world and never lose its potentiality irrespective of the responses or the stimuli. So I accepted his tenure in our bond and from two, we became three. After the first meal he cooked, I was glad to have him in our troop.

Time is a politician. It never stays in one court. Having the mind-set structured by the influence of others, I let myself away from the goodness gushing out of Mr.Spinach. As days passed by, the bond between the trio seemed losing its life. I could sense that the lightening has the strength of ego. A super storm named "Ego"emerged and washed away the spirit of being together and walls of favouritism emerged. Among the three of us, now two parties were made, me being the favourite of both. Mr.Spinach opened my cage and gave me one option, option was to fly.

In a very short span of time, I could see the clouds moving and a clear sky of radiance. The air bore the fragrance of efforts Mr.Spinach took to break the ice and live like a happy family. Unfortunately, Mr.Spinach's deeds were mistaken to be his weakness and need for livelihood. To my belief, a strange wind blew in my ears, dusting off the words I had heard about this man and all I could see, was a soul reaching out to the other, selflessly. Mr.Spinach is considered to be the best chef among all the colleagues who were striving to give life to their taste-buds, in a country where the taste is plagued. In spite of all the haves, Mr.Spinach bowed to the clumsy rampant antagonists. His only desire was to spread togetherness.

In a very subtle silence, I eavesdropped into the behaviour of Mr.Spinach and studied his deeds. Interlinking his response to the bitter statements made at him, the nascent outcome is a learning experience. 'Up-bringing' is the integral part of learning in one's life. Every action is a representative of the mould you have been molded in. Mr.Spinach had no need to bow down to rejuvenate the clumsy knot of  understanding with his irrelevant colleagues yet, he did. And, he did it in a grandeur for the way he has learnt to spread the joy of togetherness. Being together is a team effort. When one does not retaliate it, the other has to. The strength of a team is accepting the partner's have-nots and fulfilling with the haves of self. It does not end here. When the coalition has to dismantle, it must happen in terms of mutual respect. In the tug of war Mr.Spinach led through, he had forgotten that his respect was at stake. 
A well-known fact is that for two people to be together, both have to give their best and understand each other.The hidden truth is, when the purpose is served and the two must depart, equality and mutual respect must pertain from straining the end of a journey.

Mr.Spinach is an elderly man, double my age. Making and keeping up bonds is a lifetime task. One simple virtue Mr.Spinach's traits speak of is, "bow down to the crux of a bond, not beyond self-respect."

P.S.: Mr.Spinach is a name summoned in honor and respect.

Altruistic Truth!!!

"The swollen lips, the bleeding back, the crackling bones, the retarding muscles, urge me, plead me, to stop this, for I am one another child..Talk to me, believe in me, for I am not the sinner. Look into my eyes, feel the agony, for I am devoid of helping myself. Come, lend me your ears, I shall whisper the dirty truth, the breach of trust, the deceived respect, the unholy human…Teach me to say the unsaid, teach me to say NO, teach me to live, I have lost myself.  Come, lend me your ears, for I am one another child.. Death shall not haunt me, losing you will. I surrender myself to him, else he might kill you, as he threatened.  Come, lend me your ears, for I am one another child..one another child.. "

In the eery hours of pain, hold yourself not to the smell of his sweat on you, not to the touch of his skin, nor to the anguish of his delight. The pain is not in the blood oozing out from the lips, the ear, or the front or the rear. It is, but, of the penetration into your soul. The darkness around you is not the absence of light, but, of the unlighted inhumanly thirst for sadomasochistic  pleasure. Wash away, not just his touch, smell, sweat and saliva but also the grief, the helplessness and the breach of humanity.

Take a dip in your tears; promise that you shall not give them the powers to authorize someone else on your body for the demands of his. Cry aloud. Shout. Yell as loud as you can. Let the echo coo into the ears of saviors, no decibel less to cause an ache in the hearts and minds of fraternity of mankind.

Fear not to wipe out the forced secretions on your body, fear not to speak, to tell it out, to give him what he deserves, definitely not your body.

Fear not to any worldly force of destruction,

Fear not to love yourself, for he deserves the ocean of guilt,

Fear not to confide in harmony,

Fear not to lose your identity, for I have come.

I am the ear, you want to spurt your words on,

I am the eyes looking at you,

I am the arms to hold you,

I am the soul, your soul mate.

Will cuddle you,

Will kiss you,

Will look upon you,

Will respect you for who you are.

You are the spirit,

You are the apple of my eye,

You are the joy,

You are my world,

You are my smile,

You are my word,

You are the meaning of my life,

You are my child, you are my child!!

I am anonymous to you, riding the wheels of empathy, on a mission, to save you from losing yourself. Love, respect, joy and sorrow, are all in us. We make it or we break it. It is within, to pedal and rise up or to drown in the waters of life. The deeds of the sadist will guillotine him, the sufferer is the redeemer. The wrong shall repent and a new savior shall be born. One who suffers is the one who heals. Be blessed, for you are the chosen one on the path of re-kindling the purpose of one’s life. You have it all in you; I am just a messenger, carrying the message of your soul to your life. Knit your faith on an altruistic me, I shall abide by the rules of the nature and spread joy! You are my child, my child, my child.